Spring Delight—or Is It?

Friday, March 30th, 2007 by admin

Spring is such a beautiful time of the year. I love seeing the bright yellow daffodils, the vibrant purple and white flowers and the crocus’ poking their little heads above the earth– even before the snow has melted.

When I was in college I would stand at the library window (instead of studying my physics) and look out over the valley. I could always spot the weeping willows as they were the first to start leafing with their tell-tell yellow/green leaves.

The only problem is that when Spring arrives, I suffer from hay fever. I can tell to the hour when Spring actually arrives. Needless to say I do not like it!

As a consultant home organizer I was thinking this is how our houses can become to us. We love our homes, be they spacious, cozy, brick or wood. We like our colors, the yard, the rooms, the location and a zillion other things about them. However, do we create problems that can effect how we feel about homes and ourselves just like pollen creates problems for hay fever sufferers?

I am talking about clutter. It can build up so quickly. If we lay something down and then someone else comes along and puts something with it (instead of where it should go), that one thing soon becomes a pile– a little at a time. And before we know it we have clutter everywhere! Like hay fever, we can take steps to avoid being burdened with clutter and disorganization. Unfortunately there is no magic pill, like a hay fever pill. It is the small things, like putting items away after using them instead of leaving them lying around. When our space becomes cluttered, we begin to feel dissatisfied with our homes, ourselves and others around us all because of what our surroundings have become.

It is never too late to change an old habit and march on the road of change and happiness. And remember “things just get undone” and that is okay, because they can be redone!

Tips for a Fun, Clutter-Free Kitchen

Wednesday, March 28th, 2007 by admin

I read an advertisement about sub-zero in a magazine that had some good tips for a fun, clutter-free kitchen. I am going to share them with you.
• Make things easy for helpers to find. Put tools right where you use them: spoons where you stir and dishes near the dishwasher. It is easier for someone to help you because they can find what they need without going on a treasure hunt.
• Add music. Make cooking dinner more joyful, and less of a chore, by playing your favorite tunes. A happy beat can energize you to whip up a healthy dish even after a long day. Plus, if you’re having fun, it’ll encourage and entice other members of the family to pitch in.
• Quality control. While a nice, full fridge is a happy sight that means no grocery shopping for a bit, one that’s packed to the gills isn’t a good plan. Food needs air to circulate around it in order to stay fresh and tasty for as long as possible.
• Group like items. Grouping similar items guarantees that you can prepare a salad or soup fast, since all the ingredients will be in one spot.
• For more ways to remain cool, calm and collected about the state of your fridge visit www.cluterfreekitchens.com (This is an advertisement, with a chance to enter the Clutter-Free Kitchens Sweepstakes including weekly prizes.

I hope you all win! Let me know if you do and we’ll all celebrate.

Where Did All Those Pants Come From?

Wednesday, March 28th, 2007 by admin

When I returned home from a trip out of state, everything was in order, as I had left it. There was no cleaning to do and nothing needed my attention, but I had to do something with all my energy! So, as a Consultant Home Office Professional I decided to look in the closets, which I assumed would be in pretty good order.

To my surprise I was able to go through one closet and fill two large bags full of clothes–one for charity, and one to toss. It is said, we wear 20% of what we have and the other 80% just takes up space. A rule of thumb is to get rid of an article of clothing for every new article we bring home. I don’t think this always needs to be done; I think it is a personal choice. If we choose to keep everything we own in our closets, and continue to add new items, then this is probably a wise rule of thumb to adapt.

As I was going through the closet, I admit, I got rid of a lot more clothes on my husband’s side than on mine. (Isn’t that how it goes?) A few days later he came to me and asked, “Where did all those pants come from?” I had to smile quietly to myself. They were always there but were mixed up with all the other clothes. (And I had actually tossed several pants). Now that his clothes are organized, he can tell just how many pants he has.

Here are some tips on how to organize a closet:
1) Take everything out of the closet first. (When organizing, things get worse before they get better.)
2) Put back only those clothes that: a) you like, b) you know you will wear, c) are clean and in good condition, and d) fit. Be realistic if you are a size12 keep the 10’s, but not the 6 & 8’s. Don’t clutter your closet thinking you will fit into them sometime
3) If you have clothing with missing buttons or are torn hems, put them in a pile to fix (or have fixed). Do not put them back in your closet . They will be forgotten and when you decide you want to wear them, they won’t be in any condition to be worn.. If you never get around to fixing the clothes, you can always give them away. Give yourself a deadline to fix them or they go to charity.
4) Arrange like clothing together (i.e. pants, shirts, sweaters, dresses, etc.). It will be much easier to find what you are looking for. Some people like to organize according to outfits, but if you can mix and match your clothes this may not be the best idea for you.
After cleaning out your closet you too may find yourself asking, “Where did all those pants come from?!”

Aladdin's Lamp

Wednesday, March 21st, 2007 by admin

Did you ever watch that T.V. show with the beautiful genie that would come out of the lamp and either help or annoy her master? It was a fun show that brought laughter at all the predicaments she seemed to create. But it always seemed to turn out for the best.

Would you love to have an Aladdin’s lamp that you could rub, and out would pop a genie who would grant you your wish to be organized? Ah, that all seems so easy and desirable, but since there isn’t a lamp and you are tired of living in chaos and clutter, feeling overwhelmed, overdrawn and over extended we can help you get rid of these feelings and move on to an organized life.

Your home did not get cluttered overnight and it is not going to be just how you want it in a day. But with help and tips and encouragement you can get rid of your clutter and maintain your home just the way you want it to be. Anyone can do it, it doesn’t matter if you work outside the home, work at home, stay home with children, or are retired. You can do it! The first step is to recognize that you want to make change. With the right ideas, direction and routine you can feel as though you are your own personal genie.

Mcayden's system of organization

Monday, March 19th, 2007 by admin

This last week I was privileged to tend Mcayden, my one year old grandson for 2 days. He lives in another state so I don’t get to do this very often. It was so much fun, and a great energy booster. But I know why children are born to the young. I’m not sure if he made me feel young or made me feel old. He was always on the run.

I am going to share with you his organization system. When his dad brought him into the room and set him down he was off and running. He grabbed a pillow, hugged it and threw it down. I put it back in the basket and he never bothered it again. He spotted the cell phone and it was a must have as were all the remote controls in the house.

His eyes were searching everywhere for things to touch. Of course all the breakables, sea shells and framed photographs had already been put up out of his reach. In another room he quickly swept all of the books and magazines off the table. Talk about fast. Soon our home looked like only giants lived here as everything was up high or placed out of site.

I don’t recommend his system of organization—search, touch, toss. (If possible destroy) And all in a blink of an eye. But being quick is not the key to good, long lasting organization.

I am always surprised when people ask me if I tell people they have to get rid of all their things. Of course not, but we do need to have rhyme and reason to what we are keeping and analyze if we have a place for what we chose to keep. Then adopt the attitude a place for everything and everything in its place. It is not as swift as Mcayden’s method, but it sure makes more sense and is sure to create more harmony and happiness in our homes and in our lives. Quick is not the name of the game, one thing at a time, working with a proven system is the answer.

Is junk mail a good thing?

Saturday, March 17th, 2007 by admin

I was talking with a mailman and complaining to him about all the junk mail I receive. I was saying it is a waste of good trees, my time, the environment, money and on and on.

He said, “oh no, wait a minute, we call it job security”. I had to laugh. That is a different way of looking at something that really bugs and annoys me! So one man’s ‘poison’ is another man’s nectar. (So to speak)

That is how it is with organizing. To some people it is embarrassing, depressing, overwhelming, shameful, and daunting. To others, like me, it gives me energy and I thrive on it. It doesn’t make one right and one wrong, it is just a difference in human nature and that is O.K. Better than O.K. that is how it is meant to be. We are all different and that is what makes the world go round.

Do you desire a beautiful home, with everything in its place and a feeling of peace and serenity? You can have it all, with a change of mind set and some tips and pointers serenity and a feeling that all is well will be a part of your life and your home.

Be Good To Yourself

Sunday, March 11th, 2007 by admin

You know the Golden Rule? “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. That means you are to treat yourself really well. If you talked to your friends the way you talk to yourself would they be your friends?

My friend had eaten the burnt pancakes at her house for years. She finally decided she didn’t want burnt ones anymore. She took the burnt pancake on the plate and tossed it over her shoulder into the sink. Her family all stopped eating and stared at her. “She said, I don’t want burnt ones anymore”. They said, “But you always eat the burnt one, that is wasteful”. She offered it to them which they declined and she never ate another burnt pancake.

One way to treat yourself nice is to have things around you that you like, not that you put up with. I was taking pants off a hanger and the hanger was bent which bugged me. Good bye hanger. I had a turntable I put my spices on that I had had for 15 years. The color was the old icky yellow and was stained with food coloring. But it still worked so I kept it. But I didn’t like it. I was telling a friend and she said buy a new one—what a concept. I did and what a little thing to make a difference to me.

Some people like mismatched flatware; it has flare one woman told me. I can’t stand it, I like matching pieces and matching glasses. What makes one person feel good is different from another. Do what makes you feel good.

The flatware holder I have kept sliding back whenever I opened the drawer. Sticky Velcro on the bottom of the divider took care of that and I don’t have that irritation. My daughter prefers the stainless steel divider over plastic. Again we are all different in our likes and what irritates us or what makes us feel good.

Threat yourself GOOD and look for things to make you feel good about yourself. Change what you can, stop putting up with it just because it is in your home; do things that make you happy. It is the little things that add up to being treated well by ourselves and others.

Feed Dogs

Saturday, March 10th, 2007 by admin

When you think of feed dogs what do you think of? I told my daughter I was going to go to Feed Dogs Thursday night and she was perplexed. We have cats so why would I be going to feed dogs. Whose dogs were they? She pictured me outside throwing meat to some dogs.

I explained that Feed Dogs is the name of my quilting club. Feed dogs are also the metal ‘teeth’ on a sewing machine that threads the fabric under the ‘foot’ from the front to the back. There, now you have learned three different definitions of feed dogs.

What do you think of when I say organize or de-clutter? Does your skin crawl, do you roll your eyes, do you get tired, do you feel lethargic, do you feel it is just drudgery and do you feel over whelmed? Do you feel it’s time for some chocolate? (Always) “Things are bad…Send chocolate”  There are different ways of looking at organizing too.

If you do feel any of the above feelings, with some work and persistence, it won’t be painful for you to de-clutter or organize your personal or professional space. Do things a little at a time. Do not think of eating the whole elephant at one time.

As you see something needs to be done, do it right then, when using a tool put it back in its place as soon as you are through with it. A sink full of dishes take time to load, if everyone would have loaded their plates and utensils as they were through then it wouldn’t take time later to do it. If something is spilled on the cupboard, wipe it up then, don’t wait for it to harden and then try to scrub it off. File that piece of paper where it needs to go, don’t create a pile.

You will be throwing off the dole drums of organizing and not cringe when you think of de-cluttering by doing a little at a time.

Ads Be Gone

Wednesday, March 7th, 2007 by admin

Has this happened to you? You just got a favorite magazine in the mail and settled down in your comfy place to look through it. It was hard to find the articles because of so many ads. It can be annoying to say the least!

I have taken care of part of that problem by tearing out the ads as soon as I get my hands on it. Have you ever bought a magazine thinking, “oh goody, I can’t wait to see the ads?” I doubt you have. Tear out all the double sided ads they are not sacred, out they go. It makes for easier and more pleasant reading.

Sticky notes come in handy for marking pages you want to come back to later, they stick out so you don’t have to try to find where you have dog eared the page. And you can even write on the top what it is. This is especially helpful if more than one person is using the magazine.

If you find some articles in a magazine and don’t want to save the whole magazine (good on you), tear them out, put in plastic sleeves and file in a note book. When you want it, viola there it is. Create a Table of Contents in front of your three ring binder with a list of the articles.

If you just have to keep the entire magazine, use the file card system to record magazine name, month and year and the article you want to refer back to.

By eliminating the ads and then the magazines all together it makes for a more uncluttered environment.

Are We There Yet?

Wednesday, March 7th, 2007 by admin

Are we there yet? Have you ever taken a trip with children who constantly ask, “Are we there yet?” How annoying and tiring that can be. When I was a young girl we would travel from Oregon to Utah every summer and the drive got pretty boring (let’s face it, it got really, really boring for a little girl). My mother would dream up all sorts of games to keep my brother and me occupied and to help her keep her sanity with the two of us asking every 5 minutes, “Are we there yet, or when are we going to be there?”

Children have short attention spans and some days so do we. To make straightening a room, picking up toys, sorting clutter, going through closets, cupboards etc. less drudgery and more fun we can make up games for these activities.

Make a game of picking up toys by seeing who can pick up the most; pick up toys by color, or make a counting game out of it. For adults we could do our organizing for one hour and then do something we want to do for an hour. Keep doing this until the goal you set for yourself is accomplished.

By making tasks fun we will be able to say, “Yes, we have arrived and it wasn’t painful after all.” Working with a non-judgmental organizer who can instruct and encourage along with giving time saving tips and ideas could be just the thing you need.