Do You Ever Just Think, Leave Me Alone?

Wednesday, April 25th, 2007 by admin

Do you ever wish the world would just leave you alone for awhile so you could get caught up? The bathroom is always a great place to get away from everyone. Crank up the old radio, ignore the knocking on the door and slip into that tub full of bubbles or under a warm shower (all the better because you can’t hear them knocking).

I had a neighbor with young children who in all seriousness told me one day she wished everyone and everything would leave her alone so she could just be in her home and not be bothered with the outside world. I felt sorry for her because we are not an island and it is a lot more fun to be with others than to turn them out of our lives. Maybe that is why she seemed sad.

Is your life ever in CHAOS (Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome?) If so, the answer isn’t to hole up in your house, but turn it into a home through some organization and de-cluttering. If you have tried and tried to get on top of things by your self and it just isn’t working, please get some help from a home organizer professional. You will be glad you did. You can get over CHAOS and the feelings of Leave Me Alone to the attitude of Welcome To Our Home.

History Repeats Itself

Wednesday, April 25th, 2007 by admin

This week a column in the newspaper caught my eye. It said “100 Years ago today”. That was in 1907, my mother was almost one year old. I thought this will be interesting to see what neat things were happening back then.

Well, I could have been reading today’s news. Someone had been robbed; another person had been hurt in some way not unlike today, and there was a fire at a house. When I was in D.C. two weeks ago I thought I would see what their news was like out there. It was the very same as here where I live, just different addresses and names. I don’t know what I expected but for some reason I was disappointed.

When we were in New Zealand last year I really liked their news. They were so funny, it was in the morning and they made fun of what they were reporting. (They didn’t have fires or murders there or bad news). For instance for a week they poked fun at the census that was being done at the time and the penalty for filling out the paper work early (it had to be done on a specific day). It was a very serious thing, we as tourists even had a deadline we had to meet in filling them out. (Actually I thought it was so ridiculous that we had to spend 30 minutes of our precious time in their country filing out the forms that I made up addresses and names and stuff).

As an organizing professional not wasting time is very important and I wonder if watching the news can be another way of wasting time, or does it make a person more interesting? What do you think? I wonder if in 100 more years will it be a kinder and more peaceful world. Or will it be the same as it is today? Just different addresses and names.

Minneapolis Here I Come

Tuesday, April 24th, 2007 by admin

I am excited because I get to go to Minneapolis this week to the conference for The National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO). For years I worked with troubled youth and families doing child abuse investigations, foster care, working with troubled teens and providers giving service to this population.

When I worked for Child and Family Services I would go in May to Snowbird, a resort in the Utah mountains, to The Troubled Youth Conference. It was a time to clear my mind, attend classes as well as to eat some good food (not prepared by me—the best part), to go swimming on the roof of the hotel, many times with snow falling on us in the pool.

This year my sole purpose in going to the NAPO conference is to learn better ways to help serve my customers and their needs. I am not getting away from anything. I love my work so much I don’t feel the need to use this time to clear my mind. I was trying to remember a time when I didn’t like to organize and as far back as I can remember I loved it. (Now my mom might have a different view point if she was here, but I don’t think so). When I went back to work when my youngest daughter was 5 years old I actually had to tell myself to stop being so organized, that I would drive myself crazy. Well, neither thing happened, I am still organized and I am not crazy. (At least I don’t think I am).

We Are All Beautiful In Our Own Way

Tuesday, April 24th, 2007 by admin

As I was in the car today going to a Cannery to bottle jam for the needy I was noticing how beautiful the tulips were in different yards. I was in a poorer section of the city and some of the houses had a run down look along with their yards. Others had absolutely beautiful flower beds in very humble surroundings.

One thing I noticed was not only the variety of tulips but the way they had been planted. Some were in rows, alternating colors or all one color in a patch. Others were very formal looking in the way they were planted.

I got to thinking about all the different kind of gardens there are. The beautiful yards I was seeing were very simple; there are the formal English gardens, gardens tended by gardeners, botanical gardens in every country, wild flower gardens, and children’s gardens. Then there are the gardens in Victoria Canada, the acres of gardens at Biltmore Estate in North Carolina. The last two gardens are breath taking and meant to be admired for hours. I am sure you have been to some that have stuck out in your mind.

I thought this is how it is with our homes on the inside. No two are alike and yet they take on the personality of the persons living in them. I have found that those who get rid of clutter and seek help when needed from a professional home and office organizer are more at peace and are happier. Not everyone’s home will look the same after organizing (just like not all flower gardens are the same) because we are all individual and entitled to our own space the way we like it. When you organize you can just feel when it is right for you. Remember, “One man’s treasure is another man’s junk”, it is O.K. to get rid of things for your own peace and contentment.

What Do Quilting and Organizing Have in Common?

Sunday, April 22nd, 2007 by admin

One of my goals in life was never to quilt. I would see women around a quilt stitching and chattering away and I when I was asked to help I would. After a few of those experiences I decided to never quilt. How sad for me, what a lot of wasted years.

I didn’t like quilting because bending over the quilt made my back ache. I also couldn’t make tiny stitches. I now have been quilting for over 12 years and along with organizing it is my passion. I now know that my back hurt because the quilting frames were not the right height. And no one took the time to show me how to quilt tiny stitches.

The same goes for organizing, we can buy books and read and that is good, but if you are like me, you like to be shown. There is just something to be said about learning from an expert or someone who has had hands on experiences when learning something new. They have greater insight than just sitting down and reading about it by our selves. After being shown, we can expand what we have been taught through books or articles.

Just a couple of quilting tips would have been so beneficial way back when and as a home and office organizer, I really know the value that tips and an objective eye can make. They can make all the difference in the world as to how we can get things in order.

I'm Published

Sunday, April 22nd, 2007 by admin

This week our local paper ‘The Clipper’ published an article I had submitted with the caption, “Need to organize? Ask Marilyn”. So many have commented to me about this article and have called me and have congratulated me saying they enjoyed the article and found things to help them. That is what I like to do—help others with their organizing needs.

I will be scanning the article and adding it to my Article site as soon as my son-in-law comes and tells me how. Doing out of the ordinary things on the computer is not my ‘thing’. I need guidance and help, and then I can do it.

Not all of us have the same eye for things or the same talents. Organizing comes easier to some than to others. And that is O.K. That is why there are people like me who can and do make a difference in the lives of others by helping to organize. And there are computer people who make a difference, at least in my life I depend on their expertise.

Believe in Yourself

Friday, April 20th, 2007 by admin

One of my favorite children’s stories was about the little train who could. He had to haul a heavy load over a mountain and he was really too small to do the job. He kept telling himself, “I think I can, I think I can, I think I can”. And he was right, he did it.

A few years ago my daughter Cindy was riding in the STP bicycle ride from Seattle to Tacoma. A daunting challenge to be sure. She trained hard and made the necessary sacrifices to enter this ride. The big, long, steep hills were always the hardest for her. (I think impossible for many of us). She was sharing this with us and we all adviced her to have a positive attitude and when she was on the steep hill to just keep saying to herself, “I can do this, I can do this”. Later she said she took our advice and it did help her to make it up those hills.

As we work to keep our homes neat and tidy and uncluttered it is the same kind of thing. Instead of telling ourselves, “I am disorganized”, I challenge you to say, “I am organized”. I promise this will make you feel better and more motivated. And it may mean you realize you need help from a home organizer to help you get a jump start on your projects. And remember we organize one tiny baby step at a time.

To Eat or Not To Eat

Thursday, April 19th, 2007 by admin

I am looking forward to going to my quilt group tonight. One of the things we do is to show and tell the projects we have finished during the month and enjoy the oohs and ahas from everyone. It also gives us great ideas for future projects. I am excited because I have four projects to show tonight that I made when I was back in Virginia.

Now, even though it takes away from my time that I could be quilting I do have to fix dinner if I want to eat. And that ranks right up there with organizing and quilting. I want to have dinner on time so I don’t have to eat and run.

I know people who don’t like to think about dinner until late afternoon, but I find it is an advantage if I plan early, especially when going out in the evening. Crock pot cooking is great for those nights or baking some chicken and steaming some veggies. Do you have a favorite quickie recipe you would like to share? If you send it, I will share it.

Organizing on the Sly

Thursday, April 19th, 2007 by admin

I just returned from a wonderful trip to Washington D.C. to the cherry blossom festival and to visit 2 of my daughters. Talk about a fun 2 week trip. The hundreds of kites in the air were fascinating to watch and the walk around the tidal basin where the cherry trees were at peak bloom was gorgeous.

We also snuck in some organizing time. I tell you I am addicted to organizing. I was actually flattered that both daughters thought I could help them as they are both very organized. It just goes to show that we can always improve. Sometimes it takes an objective eye to come up with new, helpful ideas.

With one daughter we organized her makeup. She used a basket to hold facial cleaning supplies (there is no room in her apartment bathroom for items to be left in there). All she has to do is pick up the basket and everything she needs is at her finger tips. She used mugs to separate her makeup brushes from her mascara and other make up. For the eye shadows a check book box was utilized. It was like a treasure hunt finding things around the apartment to use until she can get to a dollar store to find matching containers. This will save her so much precious time in the mornings to have it all together in like containers so no searching has to be done.

My other daughter asked for me to help in her storage room as it bothered her. It looked really good to me but we were able to improve it to her satisfaction. Cleaning supplies that weren’t being used were placed in a bin that was already there and was only half full.
A fireplace poker set not being used was put in the far back. Other items were moved and shuffled around and hung up which made more room to get to the things she often uses. She is happy with it now as she can get to everything she needs to use.

I came home and cleaned out my filing cabinet. I thought, “I need a professional home organizer working with me” as some of the pamphlets and other things that I have had for years and years without ever looking at or even knowing they were there were hard to toss. But I did it. It was painful sometimes, but worth it. I will never remember what it was that I tossed.I feel so accomplished and good about tossing those things I will never miss. And my daughter who lives in Washington State reaps the benefits as she gets all my scrapbook paper I have hung on to and know I will never use.

Do you have a project you have done lately that has cleared space and your mind? I would love to hear what it is you have done.

Little Secrets To Save Time

Thursday, April 19th, 2007 by admin

What do you do to save time? When my aunt was in her 40’s she went back to school to study to be a nurse. Every morning before leaving for school she would fix breakfast for her family. To save time she mixed her salt and pepper together so she didn’t have to pick up both shakers. At the time I thought how odd, I like more salt sometimes and at others I like more pepper. But it worked for her.

I watched the movie ‘The Pursuit of Happiness” with Will Smith last night. It was a heart warming movie worth seeing. This man was over the top juggling all he was working to do. To save time he didn’t drink water at work so he didn’t have to take the time to go to the bathroom. (Never do this, it is not healthy). He had to make phone calls all day long and he didn’t put the receiver down between calls, he hung up with his finger on the button. He figured it saved him over 8 precious minutes a day.

We each have our own little ‘secrets’ to same time. I have one that my daughters laugh at. We have a garage door opener and I programmed the security code to be all one number so I don’t have to go all over the key pad when opening the door. Sure it only saves a few seconds, but it makes me satisfied so it works for me. And we get a good laugh out of it.

What little ‘secrets’ do you have to save time? I would love to hear from you and I will post them on a future blog or as tips on my web site. Home or office organization doesn’t just happen, we are the ones who make it happen by having little short cuts that work for us.